Boarding at Friends’
The overall running of boarding is the responsibility of the Housemistress and Housemaster. Barbara Askew looks after all the girls and sixth form boys. Stephen Staerck cares for boys in years 7 to 11. They are supported by the House duty teams, which consist of residential teaching and non-teaching staff.
We believe boarding helps to develop:
- Independence and self-confidence
- Personal responsibility
- Co-operation and consideration for others
- Positive use of leisure time
- Adaptability to change.
Meals
Lunch and Supper follow a 3 week menu and the Breakfast menu follows a 2 week cycle. There is always a choice of food and a vegetarian option. Click on the links below to view these menus.
Medical care
The School Medical Centre is staffed by a team of qualified nurses for the whole of the day. Many of the teaching staff, and all of the house staff, hold First Aid certificates and, in an emergency, we are covered by a team of doctors who will attend or give advice. The School GP, with whom all boarders are registered, holds surgeries once a week in the Medical Centre, in addition to the day-to-day care administered by the nurses on duty.
Personal Possessions
Clothes and other personal possessions should be named. The school provides a small lockable container for each pupil but money, and very valuable items, such as cameras, are kept in the Housemistress/House master’s office.
Boarders are encouraged to keep in regular contact with friends and relations by writing letters, using the telephone or email. Mobile phones must be switched off at night after lights out.
Laundry
Students send clothes to the school laundry throughout the week and they are returned regularly. Dry cleaning can be arranged if necessary. Fitted sheets and pillowcases are provided by the school but pupils may bring their own duvet covers.
House Jobs
All boarders are given a house task. This job has a direct impact on the lives of the other pupils and so is an important part of belonging to a House. These jobs are varied and examples might be: collecting the supper, taking the laundry down, collecting the laundry, and tidying the common room. Pupils will also be asked to ‘buddy’ new boarders. This responsibility is a preparation for life after school.
Pocket Money
Your Pocket money is looked after by the Housemistress or Housemaster. Money can be signed for at certain times during the week.
Personal Music
In any large community, one person’s pleasure can quickly interfere with another person’s needs. Noise is the most obvious example of this. As a result it is a school rule that music must be played at a responsible level and not played after lights out. This enables all boarders to enjoy their music, in peace and quiet.
Smoking, Drinking and Substance Abuse
These are all forbidden by the school rules and are dealt with according to the appropriate School policy.










